Valentine's Day

tNBC presents

February 14, 2001

It's Valentine's Day, and we have some great questions about it. Find out the story behind Valentine's Day and why it is such a big deal.

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TNBC: Welcome to t-Talk, tNBC's chat room. tNBC and NBCi provide this service as entertainment for their users. The individuals providing information and advice are not professional counselors and the opinions and advice given do not necessarily reflect the views of tNBC and NBCi. t-Talk, it's Valentine's Day today, and we have some great questions about it. Let's get to them!

T-Talk: Welcome to this week's t-Talk, all you sweethearts. Happy Valentine's Day!

Sami: What is the story behind Valentine's Day and why is it now such a big deal?

T-Talk: Valentine originates from Greek mythology, through one particular god--his name was Cupid--who went around shooting love arrows. Some people get hit and some people don't--this is how it was explained to me. So maybe you haven't been hit with the arrow yet. I think it's probably a big deal to some people because if they are in love or have a crush, they get to express it more on that day. It's just considered a special day for people who are in love or fond of each other.

Jo: I really like this guy at school and want to send him a valentine card, but I'm not sure if I should sign my name to it. What is the go with that? Do valentine cards have to be anonymous?

T-Talk: You go, girl! Just do it! Sign your name--how else is he supposed to know it's from you? It can be a friendly gesture. At the least, it could probably get you noticed or get his attention. Something can start from that. But if you don't send it, then it's not likely to happen.

Shawn: How much money should I spend on my high school boyfriend for Valentine's Day?

T-Talk: I would say if you want to spend money, it's probably enough just to buy a card. I don't think Valentine's Day should be centered around expensive gifts or any expectations. The mere thought that you're thinking of someone and you express it verbally or through a card should be enough, but if you want to spend money, maybe just limit it to about $20. Probably a nice frame so he can put your picture in it.

Bella: I got a valentine from a boy at school. He is a nice enough guy, but I have no feelings for him. I am really embarrassed. I don't want to hurt his feelings, but then again, I have no intention of going out with him. What should I do?

T-Talk: Well, you should flattered, for one thing. It probably wouldn't hurt to acknowledge and let him know that you're thankful for the valentine. Do it in a friendly way. That way he'll know that you're not interested on a dating level, but that it's always good to have another friend.

Missy: Should you only send one valentine card to someone really special, or is it okay to send them to lots of people you like?

T-Talk: Well, if I had my choice, I'd send them to everybody, but unfortunately it doesn't work that way for some people. So I would say send them to the people that you like.

Calvin: I got a valentine today and I think I know who it is from, but I am not sure. Is it ok to ask that person if they sent it? I don't want to look dumb, but I really want to know who sent it.

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